
Do you ever get tired of people reading in secret meanings into every word you say? This happens to me every so often, and as recently This past Monday it happened again. As most people are well aware, even some of you here on the Stream, I am the proud owner of an American made Fender Stratocaster. it’s a beautiful little guitar and I am very protective with it. (See above Picture.) Ok, let me get to the point, person #1.. His name is David, as far as I can tell he is in his mid to late twenties, he hangs around with people his own age, all whom drink, smoke pot and supposedly play music. The problem for David isn’t that he is a wannebe Rocker, or even a real musician, his problem is he doesn’t even own a guitar.
My problem is I barely know who this guy is, and some how or another he found his way to my doorstep on the first day that I decided to get my Strat out and loosen my fingers up again. That was what, Last week? So this David person shows up at my door on Monday night to ask me what? “Dude we’re Jammin tonight can I borrow Your Strat?? Say What? Lets see..forget for a moment that she's my baby, and I'm going to Hand over a 1100 dollar guitar to a total stranger because he wants to jam? To Make a long story short, I of course said absolutely no. Tonight I see one of my newer neighbors at the mailbox and he asks me why I berated his buddy David. He told this guy that I called him a whole plethora of names, and some other things that I won’t bother mentioning.
I set the record strait, and ended up walking back up the stairs shaking my head in disgust. All I said was “No.” I didn’t owe him a reason other than “No you may NOT borrow my strat.. And I wouldn’t let you borrow it if I’d known you for most of your life. I don’t lend out my Guitars to ANYONE!” but that somehow became I called him this, I called him that, I said This, I said that.. Yadda Yadda Yadda.. When all I really said was “No.” I didn’t think that what I said was all that hard to understand. And yet it got twisted and translated into something that wasn’t even close to the truth. I am Not going to dwell on this but I would like to know how You can say something So clearly, only to have your words manipulated into what another person seems to want them to mean. Sometimes I just don’t get people.
~Scratch~
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